This Malaysian Frontliner Was Obese Before Losing 25 Kg in 9 Months, Here’s Her Secret (IRL)
I spoke to the amazing Dr Nisa, a front-liner, mother-of-three, wife, and overall superwoman who lost 25 kg in 9 months! Her fitness journey was …
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“It Was Not Rape But It Felt Like It”: Malaysian Women Share How Their Consent Was Violated (IRL)
What happened with Aziz Ansari in 2018 proves that sometimes, “consensual sex” can feel non-consensual. What does consent even mean? Is there nuance in consent? …
I Am in a Polyamorous Relationship With My Boyfriend. Here’s How We Make It Work (IRL)
Spoiler: It includes respect, consent, and open conversation. There is so much that monogamous vanilla couples can learn from them.
My Ex-Boyfriend Tried to Guilt Trip His Way Into My Pants (IRL)
To me, intimacy with him was a conversation to be had. To him, it was a goddamn birthright.
5 Crucial Life Skills Malaysian Schools Refused to Teach Us (IRL)
I wrote about what school failed to teach us. Then I made recommendations on how to improve our education system. I talked about kids and …
How Religious Teachers in Malaysia Brainwashed Me as a Child (IRL)
I wrote about the topic closest to my heart: leaving church and the Evangelical Christian faith. If you visit my blog regularly (I love you—coffee/beer/your-preferred-beverage …
In 2012, My School Experienced Mass Hysteria Where Students Ran and Screamed Like Demons (IRL)
I was introduced to a guy who told me about a chilling experience he had during his secondary school days. The year was 2012. A …
How This Pilot, Fashion Designer, and Engineer Started an Online Business (IRL)
“A pilot, a fashion designer, and an engineer walk into a b— No, not a bar — a kopitiam.” My friends Roy, Julee and Mei …
I Was Bullied in an SRJK Chinese School Because I Was a Banana (IRL)
This is my friend’s story. It is about her experience in a Chinese school. My own experience is slightly better, maybe because there were more …
Orang Asal in Sabah Are Surviving the Pandemic With Homegrown Food (IRL)
Here in the Klang Valley, the lockdown meant panic-buying toilet paper and posting home workout videos on social media. For the Orang Asal in rural …